COMMON SENSE
Buddhism and everyday life are not different or separate. So there are personal and social attributes that are generally admired or valued. To the extent possible, you must develop and enhance these attributes.
Fitness: People, especially fit people, are attracted to fit people.
Money Responsibility: Being irresponsible with money greatly reduces your attractiveness.
Style: Be cool. Being cool doesn't require spending a lot of money. Being cool requires an interest in keeping in harmony with a personal style of dress and behavior that it considered and thoughtful. Being cool is not haphazard. Being cool is not conformity but an expression of your inner self.
Seeking Improvement: The kinds of people you want to meet are trying to improve themselves in many different ways. They read, travel (to the extent they can), have interests, perhaps go to school, do outdoor activities or paint. Developing and improving your skill, knowledge and accomplishments in your area of interest makes you more attractive. Neatness: Even sloppy people (like me) like neat people. Things You Must NOT Do: Become hysterical. Be an addict. Become a drag by not doing your part. Make decisions for others. Make decisions that involve others without a detailed discussion. Allow people to make decisions for you. Assume people (or the Universe) owe you something for something you did. Lend or give money to boyfriends or girlfriends with the expectation that it will be paid back. Ignore saying "please" and "thank you." Be an ingrate. Be puffed up or beat down. Note: Almost all relationship problems are caused by the unrestrained expression of one or more of the lower four worlds: hell, hunger Animality and anger.
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